It’s one of the toughest questions around holidays, birthdays, anniversaries... What type of jewelry is appropriate for the length of time we’ve been dating? There’s no easy answer, and pitfalls are everywhere. How much do you spend? Do you go with a necklace or a bracelet? Is giving earrings tacky? And the longer you’ve been dating, the question always becomes: “Do I buy a ring ever, especially when she’s expecting THAT ring...?” So I turned to Debi Wexler, one of the experts over at WhiteFlash.com to get her opinion on what we can do when gift giving times roll around. And here’s what she had to say: Technically, each length of a relationship has specific types of gifts associated with it that gradually become more elaborate the longer you and your girl have been together. So there are defiantly varying levels of gifts for various stages of commitment. Basic ideas:
- Avoid rings unless you want her to think “engagement.” - Diamond earrings are practical and can be worn with nearly any wardrobe in nearly any circumstance, and they provide a classic, elegant accent while not seeming to over the top. You can also get affordable, but sparkly studs that really make a statement. Or you can go with something a little more blingy, like the dreams of Africa earrings that are pretty and socially conscious. - Necklaces and small diamond pendants are good for anniversary presents, birthdays, or "just because", and don’t have to be too extravagant or expensive. The key to choosing the right piece of jewelry is to be sure it is suitable for the person in question. A man who never wears ties, for example, would not be as likely to appreciate a diamond-studded tie clip. A woman who frequently works out with a variety of vigorous activities would not have much use for an elaborate bracelet that could be easily damaged. So carefully consider the person for whom the jewelry is intended. In reality, what gifts a couple chooses to exchange should not be dictated by a calendar, or length of time together... but what best suit their personality. For more, head over to www.whiteflash.com
